Robby's Night, A True Story Worth Reading...
At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from Des Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons - something I've done for over 30 years. Over the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a prodigy though I have taught some talented students.
However, I've also had my share of what I call "musically challenged" Pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single Mom) dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him Play the piano. So, I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano lessons & from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavor.
As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone & basic rhythm needed to excel. But, he dutifully reviewed his scales & some elementary pieces that I require all my students to learn.
Over the months he tried & tried while I listened & cringed & tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play someday." But, it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved & smiled but never stopped in.
Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons.
I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack of ability, That he had decided to pursue something else. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed, to the student's homes, a flyer on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils & because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mother had been sick & unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still practicing. "Miss Hondorf.. I've just got to play!" he insisted.
I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it Was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right. The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends, & relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up & thank all the students & play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program & I could always salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing & it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled & his hair looked like he'd run an eggbeater through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?"
Robby pulled out the piano bench & he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo. From allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by people his age.
After six & a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo & everyone was on their feet in wild applause.
Overcome & in tears, I ran up on stage & put my arms around Robby in Joy "I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it?" Through The microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf.. remember I told you my Mom was sick? Well, actually she had cancer & passed away this morning. And well, she was born deaf, so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care, I noticed that even their eyes were red & puffy; & I thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I became a prodigy of Robby's. He was the teacher & I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance & love, & believing in yourself & maybe even taking a chance in someone & you don't know why.
Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995.
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However, I've also had my share of what I call "musically challenged" Pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single Mom) dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him Play the piano. So, I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano lessons & from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavor.
As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone & basic rhythm needed to excel. But, he dutifully reviewed his scales & some elementary pieces that I require all my students to learn.
Over the months he tried & tried while I listened & cringed & tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play someday." But, it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved & smiled but never stopped in.
Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons.
I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack of ability, That he had decided to pursue something else. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed, to the student's homes, a flyer on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils & because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mother had been sick & unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still practicing. "Miss Hondorf.. I've just got to play!" he insisted.
I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it Was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right. The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends, & relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up & thank all the students & play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program & I could always salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing & it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled & his hair looked like he'd run an eggbeater through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?"
Robby pulled out the piano bench & he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo. From allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by people his age.
After six & a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo & everyone was on their feet in wild applause.
Overcome & in tears, I ran up on stage & put my arms around Robby in Joy "I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it?" Through The microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf.. remember I told you my Mom was sick? Well, actually she had cancer & passed away this morning. And well, she was born deaf, so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care, I noticed that even their eyes were red & puffy; & I thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I became a prodigy of Robby's. He was the teacher & I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance & love, & believing in yourself & maybe even taking a chance in someone & you don't know why.
Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995.
VIA: E-Mail Forward.
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